I had an affair, the guilt is killing me!

I had an affair, the guilt is killing me!   If you are reading this, [...]

The grief paradigm of affairs.

If you have looked up affairs or infidelity on the internet, you have likely gotten [...]

What is a sexless relationship and what can you do about it

In the field of sex therapy and couples counseling,  it is common for a client to [...]

Pause, reflect, respond

Communication is tricky business. Communication is the primary reason any person calls me asking for [...]

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Holiday Cheer!

The holidays have arrive, and so has holiday stress. If you are like many, the [...]

Outside the Box Therapy: What does it mean and what can you expect?

We advertise on our counseling website as “Outside the box” mental health therapy. This is [...]

I have a strange fantasy; is there something wrong with me?

This is the question that I so often get asked after the first session in [...]

Sensate Focus: Healing intervention used in sex therapy modalities

If you have ever talked to me about sex, healing sexual trauma, intimacy or anxiety [...]